Church Leadership Conversations

  • Parenting tips: Diaper Smell, Diaper Rash and Fiber

    Just thought I would share three year's of parenting conclusions on three dirty issues. 

    Diaper Smell

    We tried to use a DiaperGenie for a year with Ryan (now 3).  The fact is that poopy diapers stink.  We have been much happier since we started a few years ago putting poopy diapers in a blue bag like Sassy Baby Disposable 200 Ct. Diaper Sacks
    and immediately put them outside.  Their room doesn't smell.  Regular pee-only diapers don't really smell.  We just throw them in a garbage can near the diaper change station. 

    Diaper Rash
    If the kid has diaper rash (often caused from loose stools), the best thing to do is clean off his dirty butt with wipes, then give him a quick bath after every poopy diaper, and then put Desitin or Butt Paste or another product with zinc oxide.  This will help.  The bath (in the sink or tub) really does wonders; it is impossible to get the butt clean with just wipes after a liquid poop.

    Fiber
    The "regularity" and the ease with which bowel movements are made depend almost entirely for our boys on what they have eaten. 

    The BRAT diet stops you up and makes your poops firmer.  (Bananas, Rice–white, Applesauce, and Toast).  But see the interesting Wikipedia BRAT diet entry which also recommends liquids, cereal, milk and yogurt.

    On the other hand, we have found Fiber cereals to do as advertised and keep our boys very regular.  It is terrible to watch a kid who is constipated and who is in pain every time they poop. 

    Here are some of the cereals in our cupboard.  I have put the cereals' grams of Dietary Fiber per serving.  (No wonder it is hard to read the labels when each cereal has a different serving size!)  But the point is that each of these have quite a bit of fiber.  I like to just spread a bunch of different kinds of cereal on their plates and let them choose what they want to eat.   

    Kellogg's Crispy Blend Low Fat Granola without Raisins  (In 1/2 cup serving, 3 g)

    Barbara's Bakery Bite Size Shredded Oats  (In 1 1/4 cup serving, 5 g)

    Nature's Path Organic Heritage Flackes, Multigrain Cereal   (In 3/4 cup serving, 6 g)

    Cheerios Cereal (In 1 cup serving, 3 g)

    When they are getting a little bit too loose, we mix in more cereals with less fiber like Kellogg's Crispix
    (in 1 cup serving, less than 1 g of Dietary Fiber). 

  • Top grades for pastors on Twitter

    Shawn Wood put a list of the Top 15 twittering pastors according to grader…

    I didn't know that there was such thing as a "Twitter grader" until now:  See http://twitter.grader.com/

    The Twitter Grade measures the relative power of a Twitter user. It is calculated as a percentile score. A grade of 66 means that the user scores higher than 66 percent of the other user profiles that have been graded.

  • The number of followers you have
  • The power of this network of followers
  • The pace of your updates
  • The completeness of your profile
  • …a few others
  • I thought I would recommend the following people in addition to Shawn's list before I saw the grading system.  Later I added their Twitter grades.  His top 15 are graded between 99.8 and 97.5.

    Other nominees in addition to Shawn Wood's list who are pastors:

    Perry Noble, pastor at NewSpring in SC 99.9

    Tony Morgan, at Perry Noble’s church NewSpring 99.9

    Doug Pagitt, emerging church writer and pastor of Solomon’s Porch in Minn. 98.3

    Mark Driscoll, Reformed writer and pastor of Mars Hill Church in Seattle 96.1

    Dan Kimball, evangelical writer and leader of Vintage Faith Church in Calif. 90

    Though, I would mention that few pastors actually Twitter much about church leadership issues. You can get more of that from their blogs and books.

    I would also nominate some people who write on church leadership issues but are theologians and writers rather than pastors:

    Donald Miller, writer 99.6

    Cameron Strang, Relevant Magazine editor 99.1

    Ed Stetzer, writer 97.7

    Tony Jones, writer 97.4

    Andy Crouch, writer 96.4

    Len Sweet, professor and writer 98.9

    Andrew Jones, blogger 98.5

    Frank Viola, writer 91

    Bill Easum, writer and consultant 84

    Leadership Journal’s Out of Ur blog 83

    My Twitter http://twitter.com/AndyRowell grade is 66. 

    See who I follow at:  http://twitter.com/AndyRowell/friends

    Again, I would not look for that much help about pastoring from
    Twitter. Again, look to their blogs and books for their real meat.
    Probably Sweet gives the most quality content on Twitter.

    I have written before about Twitter at:

    October 10, 2008 Catalyst Conference Happening Now and More Reflections on Twitter

    August 20, 2008 Reflections on Twitter

    Better is to see my list of 80 Church Leadership blogs which I keep up to date:

    My List of 80 Church Leadership Blogs I am watching

  • Ryan Language Continues

    Ryan (3):
    "Daddy, you know what would be hysterical . . . that would be hilarious . . . I'm just going to say a quick hello to Mommy."