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What is to be done about boring church worship services?

Here is a musing note I wrote to students after grading some worship assignments. 

I continue to reflect on how to make worship less boring. Perhaps it is not boring to you! Great! I just think of atheists who say: "I don't want to go to heaven for eternity. I can't stand one hour of being in church. An eternal worship service would be horrible. I would rather be in hell!" I continue to think that Christian worship (if it is boring) needs to be engaging emotionally–perhaps by being more honest about the troubles and pain of life. Or perhaps by the leaders, artists, and musicians taking more risks. If they do take risks, it will also be appropriate for part of the experience of those being led to be "critics" in the sense of discerning recipients (like people who go to movies or plays or concerts together and then discuss what struck them emotionally and what they didn't like). When a musician or artist has tried something new, it is not inappropriate to chat about it afterward with friends. That is part of the experience. A student mentioned that K-Love radio station promotes itself as "positive and encouraging." And yet, interestingly, the top hits on the charts on Spotify are explicit. Or even if not explicit: painful like this song I think is catchy and a top hit right now : https://genius.com/Imagine-dragons-bad-liar-lyrics about divorce and separation. Is it sinful that people want to listen to and resonate with angry, passionate songs? Or is it human to express the strongest emotions and we as Christians need to find ways to articulate and release and express those things too–as the psalmists did? Is it that we are so deadened and calloused that we need horror movies and violence and nudity and explicit language in Rated R movies to get a emotional reaction? Yes, maybe. We are coarsened so that we need increasingly stronger stimulants to get a reaction. That would be a reason not to expose oneself to that stuff–so that you might remain pure and innocent. I agree with that to a large extent. BUT I think worship leaders and pastor and Christian artists and communicators do need to be aware of how raw and broken and confused and self-destructive and passionate and unhinged human beings are and name that and surface that as a reality. That is a way to pave the way for "confess your sins one to another." But that of course does not mean glorifying the sinful things or viewing them as hopeless BUT I do think more of that exposure to human frailty and grappling with it would make our worship services more similar to the pathos of TV shows, plays, and movies. And I think that would be a good thing. It is tragic to think of church services being seen as boring and ho hum.  Instead, it should be like therapy or "every week our pastor and musicians bring it–they try to move us, engage us, wake us up. Sometimes they misfire and it turns out badly. Sometimes it is not hopeful enough. Sometimes it is too raw. Sometimes it is too positive and cheery. Sometimes it is too cheery. But each week, they bring it. And broken people are coming. And people interested in reflecting on the human plight are coming. It is must see TV. There is FOMO if you are not there because each week we are delving into the problems of life and pleading for God to be present and bring wisdom, strength, and hope." 

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With Floodplain, Sara Groves continues to articulate feelings we all should feel

We went to the record release concert for Sara Grove's album Floodplain and now I have had a chance to listen to it. 

 

  1. As usual, @grovesroad has her heart to the ground feeling things the rest of us should be too. Listen & read words to new album Floodplain.

     
     
     
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    "Reality is better than fear or fantasy" "Did you see the invitation to have nothing to prove?" "Closer to the edge of I don’t know"

     
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    "patches of joy" About kids: "Your signal is getting stronger" About God: "I can tell by your movement you’re not angry."

     
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Music for parents: Sara Groves and Andrew Peterson. For kids: TobyMac, Phil Joel and Steve Green

We have enjoyed the music of Sara Groves and Andrew Peterson for sane words in the midst of parenting.  They have kept us going. 

Lots of good songs about the pain and beauty of marriage on Fireflies and Songs (2009) by Sara Groves and one about parenting “Setting Up the Pins” that is about the repetition involved.  It was written while doing dishes.  Our kids put it on repeat on the CD player–no kidding.  Fireflies and Songs was named best album of the year by Christianity Today in 2009.  Groves has a blog and is on Twitter. 

 

Groves also has the “Song for my Sons” song on Tell Me What You Know (2007) and another favorite “When the Saints” that keeps us going.

 

 

I want to get this one too sometime.  Her Station Wagon: Songs for New Parents (2009).

 

 

On Andrew Peterson’s album, Counting Stars (2010), there are a couple good songs about marriage: “Dancing in the Minefields” and “World Traveler” and one about parenting “Planting Trees.”  Counting Stars was the #5 album at Christianity Today music awards for 2010.  He is on Twitter.

 

 

We have also enjoyed: TobyMac’s “Get Back Up” on his Tonight (2010)There is a lot of falling down in our house.  

 

 

We have also enjoyed “Strong and Courageous” on DeliberateKids.2 (2010) by Phil Joel. 

 

 

Seeds of Faith has great original Scriptural songs for kids.  We like the whole album.  There are other Seeds albums that look good as well.

 

 

 

We also recommend the:

Steve Green Hide ’em In Your Heart (1 and 2) albums from 1988 and 1990.

 

 

Our kids are 5, 3, and 10 mos. at the moment.  

For more kids’ music we have enjoyed, see my Music category.