Author: Andy Rowell

  • Advice about moving to Durham, North Carolina

    I put the following information together two years ago when we moved to Durham, NC to start the Th.D. program at Duke Divinity School at Duke University.  (If you are interested in the Th.D. program, see my post Advice about Duke Th.D. and Ph.D programs in theology).  I have gotten questions from some friends about house-hunting here recently and so I thought I would post this information.  My advice is geared primarily to people who are moving here to go to school at Duke Divinity School and my advice is also oriented toward families.  This advice is more or less a compilation of advice people gave us.  It is just to get you started in your research so that you will be able to ask better questions.  Please post comments and other resources in the comments.       

    Neighborhood information:

    • People talk about "north Durham" and "south Durham" (though these are not technical neighborhood designations) with Duke University being the dividing line.  If you are north of Duke's campus, you are in north Durham and if you are south of it, you are in south Durham.  Duke University consists of a huge swath of land.  It includes East Campus (where the freshmen are) and West Campus (where the Divinity school is located) which are connected by a shuttle bus route.  
    • Ideally, I think it would be fun to live in the area near 9th Street.  9th street is kind of retro, hip and artsy.  From there you can walk to East campus and take the bus to West campus where the Divinity school is.  However, this is an old area so either the houses are beautifully restored and 300K or they are badly run-down and sell for 50K.  But, you can find some in the middle if you're lucky.  But some of the reasonably price homes have been "flipped" – bought for 60K and sold 6 months later for 160K.  Cosmetic work has been done but major underlying issues may have been covered up so beware.  The "neighborhoods" that are near 9th Street are Old West Durham, Watts Hillandale, Trinity Park, and Walltown.      
    • Some people also suggest Northgate Park which is north of Walltown. 
    • There is also an area of town near Burch Ave (27701) that was traditionally not a great neighborhood but is being improved.  It is very close to Duke Div School (1.2 miles). 
    • The homes in south Durham are appreciating more because of access to the gorgeous The Streets at Southpoint mall, access to Chapel Hill (where University of North Carolina (UNC) is located) and Research Triangle Park (RTP).
    • We ended up in north Durham because it was more affordable.  We are on Candlewick Way, Durham, NC.  Move near us!  It is very close to the great children's museum The Museum of Life and Science.  We have a great large Starbucks at the corner of Guess Road and Horton Road (3801 Guess Road) where Amy and I study.    

    Location of Duke Divinity School:

    I had trouble finding a physical address for Duke Divinity School
    since all of the literature simply has a post office box.  I have begun
    using this address for directions to Duke Divinity School: Chapel Dr,
    Durham, North Carolina 27706  Here is the Google link to that location. You might also use W Main St & Campus Dr Durham, NC 27701 for East Campus (where you can pick up the bus to go to West Campus).  If you want to visit, Duke Divinity School, you need to park in the Bryan Center Parking Garage off Science Drive, Durham, NC.   

    Where professors live:

    In April 2007, I looked up where 13 Duke Divinity school professors live  I got their addresses from http://www.zabasearch.com/advanced.php and what their house Tax Assessor's Value from  www.zillow.com.  Basically this helped me to learn that

    a) professors live all over the place.

    b) all the professors live between 7-20 minutes from Duke Divinity
    School (according to Google Maps directions).  One lives in Chapel Hill
    and lives closer than some others who live in Durham.

    c) In April 2007, the 13 houses ranged between $155,000 and $500,000.  (The high and low two in 2009 are now $192,000 and $548,000.)

    Here are some comments from some other Duke people about neighborhoods:

    1. A Duke Business School person writes: "Durham is reasonable, price-wise.  Many grad students I know live just north of campus, in and around the Northgate area. Our neighborhood, just south of campus, is a bit pricier, but we were moving from the very pricey western suburbs of Chicago. Do look at lots of options when you visit."
    2. A Duke professor writes: "We live in the Watts Hillandale neighborhood, and have loved it.  Beautiful older houses, many quite affordable; it's about two miles to the Div School, and I often walk.  One could easily ride a bike, or take a Duke bus.  It is also pretty near both a public Montessori grammar school, and the one good public magnet grammar school (schools in Durham, as you may know, are not terrific).  There are a fair number of young families in this neighborhood. Also, we are in walking distance of Whole Foods.  ;-)"
    3. An environmental studies Ph.D. student writes: "It is important to decide what kind of neighborhood you want.  Some neighborhoods have mostly young profesionals living there, are all new builds, are close to malls and things like that. Other neighborhoods are like ours are older homes, very diverse demographically, can have some minor crime, etc. We live just off downtown in old north durham. Duke park, old west durham, watts/hillandale — these are similar places."
    4. Duke Div Student. "When I moved to Durham, I was looking for rentals and so I used the Duke Community Housing webpage quite a bit.  The folks at that office may also be helpful in directing you to information about buying houses, but I don't know for sure.  The advice I gave to another student was to get a map of Durham, and look for houses within 8-10 blocks of Ninth Street in the north, east and west directions, or around the North Carolina School of Science and Math." 
    5. Duke Div Student: "My husband and I live in a very nice neighborhood not too much farther north from Walltown called Northgate park.  Houses in our neighborhood are selling between 105-145K.  They might be smaller than you are looking for (I don't know about your kid situation) but they are old and generally well kept.  The neighborhood itself is fairly diverse (the diversity tending to happen as you get closer to Club Blvd. and Roxboro Rd.) both racially and economically. There is bike path access almost the entire way to East Campus and a community park that is wonderful if you do have kids. It, too, is beginning to gentrify a bit but I'm not sure if prices are inflated too much." 
    6. Duke Div Student: "We live on Lancaster.  We relocated about 9 months ago, also interested in diversity.  We love the neighborhood.  Granted, we are just on the edge, by Green street, so we're barely into Walltown."
    7. Duke Div Student connected to Rutba House (New Monasticism – intentional community and justice house): "We care a lot about the people whose families have been here for four and five generations (many of whom are members of our church) and try to discourage people (esp. middle class white people) who aren't planning to stay more than 10yrs from moving into the neighborhood."
    8. Student about north Durham "West Point on the Eno park, which is a <5 min drive from you and is a very beautiful place.  You're not that far from West Point on the Eno, which is a great place to hike, find turtles and bugs in the river, etc."

    School Information:

    There are charter and magnet public schools and Christian and private schools.   This is a whole huge topic that you will need to talk to lots of people about to understand.  A couple Christian schools are Trinity School and Bethesda Christian Academy and two other private schools are Durham Academy and Duke School.

    You can learn more about the public schools at:

    1. North Carolina School Report Cards
    2. http://www.schoolmatters.com/
    3. The real estate listings tell you where your kids would go to school if you bought that house. 

    For the public schools, you need to start researching them at the beginning of November for the following September.  The lottery for magnet schools (Durham Public School funded) is in January.  The lottery for charter schools (primarily funded by the state) vary.   

    To give you a beginning point, here are the top 8 public elementary schools in Durham according to their overall Reading and Math scores for 2008-2009 from their NC School Report Card.  (I did the math).  Of course, there is more to a school than test scores.

                                               Reading            Math (Percentage of Students’ Scores At or Above Grade Level)

    1. Pearsontown                    79.7               90.4


    Pearsontown Elementary

    4915 Barbee Road

    Durham, 27713 1603

    Regular School, Year-Round Calendar

    K-5

    2. Little River                        77.8            87.3


    Little River Elementary

    2315 Snow Hill Road

    Durham,
    27712 3668

    Regular School, Traditional Calendar

    K-5

    3. Central Park (Charter)     78.9               81.0


    Central Park School For Child

    724 Foster Street

    Durham, 27701

    Regular School, Year-Round Calendar

    K-5

    4. Easley                              75.6               83.0


    Easley Elementary

    302 Lebanon Circle

    Durham, 27712 2644

    Regular School, Year-Round Calendar

    K-5

    5. Creekside                        69.5                79.6


    Creekside Elementary

    5321 Ephesus Church Road

    Durham,
    27707

    Regular School, Traditional Calendar

    K-5

    6. Hillandale                        70.1                 78.7


    Hillandale Elementary

    2730 Hillandale Road

    Durham,
    27705 2076

    Regular School, Traditional Calendar

    K-5

    7. Morehead (Magnet)         76.9               71.8


    Morehead Montessori

    909 Cobb Street

    Durham, 27707 1315

    Magnet School, Traditional Calendar

    PK-5

    8. Carter (Charter)                                64.1                82.9


    Carter Community Charter

    1305 West Club Blvd

    Durham, 27705

    Regular School, Year-Round Calendar

    K-8

    You can only go to most of these schools if you live in their district.  You always have a year-round and a traditional calendar option that you are districted for. 

    As a magnet, your best chance to get into Morehead is by choosing it as your number one choice in the magnet lottery in January when your child is 3 years old and will be starting pre-K the following September.  It also improves your chances if you live near the school in its priority area.  You have a small chance of getting in through the lottery in subsequent years. 

    As far as the magnet schools, you can try to win the lottery to get into the Central Park by applying to it in February when your child is 4 and will be entering Kindergarten the following September.  Check Carter's website for information on enrollment there. 

    I have prepared the following graphic about elementary schools based on the chart above.  I have added Mangum in north Durham County to the list.  Our son is going to Hillandale.  

    Durham Public Schools Image
     


    Transportation:

    You basically need two cars here unless you live close to Duke and
    it is pretty expensive to live close to Duke.  Some families do a
    scooter/motorcycle (and then park in the bike racks right by the
    Divinity school) and a car.  Some friends do it with one car but they
    have to do lots dropping off and picking up which I would not
    recommend.  You have to buy a parking pass to park at Duke and then
    take a shuttle in to Duke Divinity School or do a 10 minute walk. 

    Churches:

    We attend Blacknall Presbyterian Church (PCUSA) where Amy is Director of Children's Ministry.  (I have described it here).  Some friends attend Chapel Hill Bible Church, Emmaus Way (emerging / missional church), NewHope Church (seeker-sensitive), All Saints Church (AMIA), Church of the Holy Family (Episcopal), The Summit Church (SBC), Duke Chapel (on Duke's west campus), Mt. Level Missionary Baptist Church (predominantly African-American), and Church of the Good Shepherd (PCA).  Duke Divinity School students attend a huge range of churches.  See more about recommendations regarding UMC churches below in the comments. 

    Pools:

    We go to the downtown YMCA that has a great zero-depth indoor pool for kids and has childcare and reduced rates.   

    Duke University also has an outdoor pool on Central Campus that is free for Duke students and families.  Hours: Mon-Sat 10 am – 9pm; Sun 1-9 pm 

    We have brought guests to this great outdoor zero-depth pool in Chapel Hill: The YMCA at Meadowmont

    Parks and Museums:

    See list of Durham parks.

    Places we meet friends with kids:

    Museum of Life and Science

    Duke Park

    Oval Park

    Kidzu Children's Museum in Chapel Hill

    Museum of Natural Sciences in Raleigh, NC

    Sports for Kids:


    Realtors:

    1. We used Tony Craver.  He was professional and knowledgeable.  He has all the credentials and was a builder for many years.  His approach is to send you a list of 50 houses to check out online that fit your criteria and you pick 10 or so.  He gives you a tour of Durham the first day.  The next day you zoom through the 10 houses in about 10 minutes each.  We ended up visiting 30 houses before putting an offer on one.  We bid 5% off the list price and they accepted.  
    2. One professor recommended: Ethel Snuggs for looking near 9th street.

    Renting:



    Maps:

    House search website:

    http://realtor.com

    Hotel:

    We did Priceline.com "Name Your Own Price" in Durham, NC.  We put in 2 stars and $35 and had our offer accepted at a hotel.  It worked well.  When you put in the offer, you have to accept what they give you. 

    Comparing Cost of Living and other factors to the city you're moving from:

    http://www.moving.com/find_a_place/compare2cities/

    http://www.bestplaces.net/col/

    http://cgi.money.cnn.com/tools/costofliving/costofliving.html

    http://www.bankrate.com/brm/movecalc.asp?

    "Buying Vs. Renting" calculator

    http://www.ginniemae.gov/rent_vs_buy/rent_vs_buy_calc.asp?Section=YPTH

    Restaurants:

    1. American Tobacco Historic District.  Mellow Mushroom Pizza place is one example.  Right next to Durham Bulls (minor league baseball park).  Fun place to walk around. 
    2. Brightleaf Square.  El Rodeo (Mexican place), Satisfaction (Pizza) and Amelia's (for desert) are popular. 
    3. Elmo's Diner on 9th street is a good family restaurant. 
    4. Everywhere you turn there are great restaurants. See the April 2010 New York Times article: Durham, a Tobacco Town, Turns to Local Food.  
  • How to Read Hybels: Book Review of Axiom by Bill Hybels

    Axiom by Bill Hybels

    Bill Hybels started Willow Creek Community Church in 1975. It is probably the
    most influential church in the United States and also one of the largest with a
    weekly attendance of some 23,500 people. In Axiom: Powerful Leadership Proverbs, Hybels
    gives 76 leadership tips and briefly describes each in 2-3 pages. Most will find
    the book inspiring and thought-provoking. But this is a book that will be
    incomprehensible to others and revolting to a few.

    If you sense that churches are too often poorly managed, their programs
    shoddy, their staff aimless, and their efforts mediocre, you will love this
    book. Hybels's father expected him to take on the family business but instead
    Bill decided to plant a church and he has managed it better than most
    businesses.  Hybels sees no reason why the doing things well is inconsistent
    with God's work.

    But, if you think the pastor's role is to be a nurturing shepherd and that a
    church should never grow beyond the size where the pastor can know everyone's
    name, then Hybels's advice will be incomprehensible to you and likely disgust
    you. The kindly parish priest—who preaches, administers the sacraments, and
    visits the sick—Hybels is not.

    The insights of Hybels—many of which assume a large paid staff—will apply
    best to the pastor of a church with 500 or more weekly attendance because at
    this size it is difficult for the pastor to oversee everything and his or her
    role begins to entail significant staff supervision. According to Duke
    sociologist Mark Chaves in Congregations in America, in 1998, "71
    percent of [U.S. congregations] have fewer than one hundred regularly
    participating adults" (p.17-18). The size of the church radically changes the
    way a pastor functions. (See also his post Congregational Size). Roy M. Oswald writes in "How to Minister
    Effectively in Family, Pastoral, Program, and Corporate Sized Churches"
    of
    the smallest size of congregation,

    This small church can also be called a Family Church because it functions
    like a family with appropriate parental figures. It is the patriarchs and
    matriarchs who control the church's leadership needs. What Family Churches want
    from clergy is pastoral care, period. For clergy to assume that they are also
    the chief executive officer and the resident religious authority is to make a
    serious blunder. The key role of the patriarch or matriarch is to see to it that
    clergy do not take the congregation off on a new direction of ministry. Clergy
    are to serve as the chaplain of this small family.

    But one need not confront the family of the church antagonistically, one can
    learn to thrive as a pastor of a smaller congregation by soaking in the rich
    work of Eugene
    Peterson
    , enjoying the delightful little book The Art of Pastoring by David Hansen, and learning
    from the example of the wise Father
    Tim
    in the fictional Mitford series by Jan Karon.

    Another complication besides size for some readers will be that many
    denominations closely define the role of the pastor and the local church with
    policies and committees. Hybels had the freedom and danger of making these
    structures up as he went along as the founder of an independent
    nondenominational church. I would recommend the writings of Will
    Willimon
    , Patrick
    Keifert
    , Alan
    Roxburgh
    , and Mark
    Lau Branson
     for advice about navigating leadership and effectiveness issues
    in an established small denominational church.

    Finally, there are those who argue that a church with 500 plus weekly
    attendance and multiple staff loses much of the intimacy and flexibility of what
    a church should be. To Alan
    Hirsch
    , David Fitch, Neil Cole and Frank Viola, Hybels's tips would
    probably be evidence of the corporate, cold, impersonal and bureaucratic dark
    side of the large “attractional model” church. However, even they might find the
    insights of Hybels valuable in their efforts leading large church planting
    organizations.

    Despite the disclaimer that pastors of small churches, ministers of
    denominational churches, and critics of large churches may be turned off by this
    book, let me praise this book for what it is: candid insights by an extremely
    capable church leader. A sign of Hybels's considerable leadership ability is
    that he could not help but start a huge consulting arm called the Willow Creek
    Association and a widely-acclaimed annual leadership conference The Leadership
    Summit—there was huge demand for his advice.

    The 57-year-old's tone is intense. He sounds like a drill-sergeant, a CEO, or
    a tough football coach. This week Connecticut
    basketball coach Jim Calhoun
    was hospitalized for dehydration. A nurse asked
    him, "Are you type A?" to which he replied, "What's beyond that?" I thought of
    Hybels. Hybels writes, "Those who know me well know that I'm intense and
    activistic. For me, the bigger the challenge, the more I like it. I've always
    pushed myself hard to solve problems, raise the bar, and make as many gains for
    God as I possibly can" (142). Hybels's personality reminds me of the apostle
    Paul, the Puritan Richard
    Baxter
    , Methodism founder John
    Wesley
    and the energetic Dietrich
    Bonhoeffer
    —they are all driven and intense. Out of the 76 tips, all but
    about a handful suggest the need for harder and more strategic work. Still,
    Hybels tells of a few ways he has learned to soften his approach and slow down
    his pace. See for example, 9. "The Fair Exchange Value," 58. "Create Your Own
    Finish Lines" and 75. "Fight for Your Family."

    The 2-3 page tips and stories are a great medium for his thoughts. He
    illustrates and explains his ideas clearly. It is an easy read. If you liked
    this book, also read the 99 practical hints in Simply Strategic Stuff by Tim Stevens and Tony Morgan.  Both these books give the
    uninitiated and naive church leader a glimpse of the nuts and bolts of the
    dreaded "administrative" part of pastoral ministry.

    If you are not turned off by Axiom, perhaps you belong serving in a
    larger church where these leadership and organizational skills are highly
    valued. Chaves points out that more and more people are attending large churches
    so it is not correct to see them as an anomaly: "the median person is in a
    congregation with four hundred regular participants" (p.18). Or you may resonate
    with Hybels and play the thankless but necessary reforming role in the small
    church. Or you may take his insights and apply them to the pioneering
    entrepreneurial work of a new church plant.

    I am grateful for the opportunity to hear the candid thoughts as over a lunch
    conversation from one of the most important American church leaders in the last 25
    years.  Hybels may eventually write an autobiography but much of what is
    fascinating about him he has generously already shared in Axiom.